Comments for The Likeability Guy http://www.bobsommers.com Bob Sommers Tue, 07 Feb 2012 05:38:03 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 Comment on Are You Avoiding Me? by lucy http://www.bobsommers.com/are-you-avoiding-me-714.html/comment-page-1#comment-4470 lucy Tue, 07 Feb 2012 05:38:03 +0000 http://www.bobsommers.com/?p=714#comment-4470 this was right on! I'v recently experienced this.He acted like everything was fine,he's just been busy.SO I took him off my social network.WHen he didn't call all day,I blocked his phone number.I took my control back.BTW:I think it's either another women,or he's back on heavy drugs this was right on! I’v recently experienced this.He acted like everything was fine,he’s just been busy.SO I took him off my social network.WHen he didn’t call all day,I blocked his phone number.I took my control back.BTW:I think it’s either another women,or he’s back on heavy drugs

]]> Comment on Bob Sommers by Can You Keep A Secret? | The Likeability Guy http://www.bobsommers.com/about/comment-page-1#comment-4402 Can You Keep A Secret? | The Likeability Guy Thu, 02 Feb 2012 00:59:13 +0000 http://www.bobsommers.com/?page_id=318#comment-4402 [...] Written by Bob Sommers [...] [...] Written by Bob Sommers [...]

]]> Comment on 30 Day Likeability Challenge – Lesson 2 by Joya http://www.bobsommers.com/30-day-likeability-challenge-lesson-2wsx/comment-page-1#comment-4335 Joya Wed, 25 Jan 2012 01:00:37 +0000 http://www.bobsommers.com/?page_id=1042#comment-4335 Thanks for the lessons, Bob! I've observed that I like people who: - are positive and upbeat - are attentive - look me straight in the eye and smile - are engaging in conversation - are open and share their experiences - appear to be brimming with youthful energy - speak confidently - listen - are funny Thanks for the lessons, Bob!

I’ve observed that I like people who:
- are positive and upbeat
- are attentive
- look me straight in the eye and smile
- are engaging in conversation
- are open and share their experiences
- appear to be brimming with youthful energy
- speak confidently
- listen
- are funny

]]> Comment on The Sweetest Sound by Charlie Jarboe http://www.bobsommers.com/the-sweetest-sound-1252.html/comment-page-1#comment-4268 Charlie Jarboe Tue, 17 Jan 2012 03:23:49 +0000 http://www.bobsommers.com/?p=1252#comment-4268 Great, thanks for sharing this article post.Really thank you! Awesome. Great, thanks for sharing this article post.Really thank you! Awesome.

]]> Comment on How To Be Dislikeable In One Easy Step by Bob Sommers http://www.bobsommers.com/how-to-be-dislikeable-in-one-easy-step-135.html/comment-page-1#comment-4122 Bob Sommers Fri, 30 Dec 2011 06:53:56 +0000 http://www.bobsommers.com/?p=135#comment-4122 Thank you Ben. I'm glad you're enjoying it. Aloha, Bob Thank you Ben. I’m glad you’re enjoying it. Aloha, Bob

]]> Comment on When People Say Stupid Things by Ben http://www.bobsommers.com/when-people-say-stupid-things-607.html/comment-page-1#comment-4121 Ben Fri, 30 Dec 2011 05:54:01 +0000 http://www.bobsommers.com/?p=607#comment-4121 I had known about the Inverse BF effect from auditing a social psych class many years ago but this fantastic re-telling of it helped me make new connections to events that have happened to me in the past with various people. Most notably, I had a very dysfunctional relationship with my first girlfriend where she would alternately abuse me psychologically and express regret for being so mean to me. Turns out I had very low self-esteem and would react to her meanness by beating myself up further, which of course invoked the IBF effect and so on. Several years after she left me for another person, I heard from another friend that she had been telling her friends that we had broken up because I was cheating on her (which I didn't). In my mind thereafter she was just a monster I happened to come across. Now I know better, that I was partly to blame for encouraging her behavior through my own lack of self-love. I had known about the Inverse BF effect from auditing a social psych class many years ago but this fantastic re-telling of it helped me make new connections to events that have happened to me in the past with various people. Most notably, I had a very dysfunctional relationship with my first girlfriend where she would alternately abuse me psychologically and express regret for being so mean to me. Turns out I had very low self-esteem and would react to her meanness by beating myself up further, which of course invoked the IBF effect and so on. Several years after she left me for another person, I heard from another friend that she had been telling her friends that we had broken up because I was cheating on her (which I didn’t). In my mind thereafter she was just a monster I happened to come across. Now I know better, that I was partly to blame for encouraging her behavior through my own lack of self-love.

]]> Comment on How To Be Dislikeable In One Easy Step by Ben http://www.bobsommers.com/how-to-be-dislikeable-in-one-easy-step-135.html/comment-page-1#comment-4120 Ben Fri, 30 Dec 2011 05:30:08 +0000 http://www.bobsommers.com/?p=135#comment-4120 Honestly, if this site were a book, I'd not be able to put it down. :) Excellent work Bob. Honestly, if this site were a book, I’d not be able to put it down. :) Excellent work Bob.

]]> Comment on 30 Day Likeability Challenge – Lesson 16 by Reginald AMICY http://www.bobsommers.com/30-day-likeability-challenge-lesson-16tts/comment-page-1#comment-4062 Reginald AMICY Sun, 25 Dec 2011 02:37:36 +0000 http://www.bobsommers.com/?page_id=1072#comment-4062 Sir SOMMERS, Thank you so much for the opportunity to be influenced by your teaching! I am better than prior to watching this program. I also learned from the experience of those who commented all along the process. Thank you very much! Sir SOMMERS,
Thank you so much for the opportunity to be influenced by your teaching! I am better than prior to watching this program. I also learned from the experience of those who commented all along the process.
Thank you very much!

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